EXDATINGWATCH // FLAGS WHEN A MATCH ON THE APP HAS A MUTUAL CONNECTION WHO IS A PAST PARTNER OF YOURS… 900,521 matches scored

The dashboard your leadership already wanted

Exdatingwatch
Flags when a match on the app has a mutual connection who is a past partner of yours…

Flags when a match on the app has a mutual connection who is a past partner of yours, pulled from a "relationship history" field you filled out once and forgot existed, surfaced to your match as a compatibility warning. It’s already working before you finish reading this page.

★★★★★"We tried three other platforms first. This is the one that stuck."Verified Exdatingwatch user
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Exdatingwatch activity index
30-day trend
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Screening Default

A public-record scan runs automatically pre-match, with no explanation of what it checked or why.

Compatibility Scoring

Exdatingwatch generates a percentage from a handful of questions and shows it before either person has really talked.

Mentor Feed

A courting couple's assigned mentor couple gets a running feed of flagged moments from Exdatingwatch, updated faster than the couple can bring it up themselves.

CHRIST-AI Connect – Already Active

Skip the setup — CHRIST-AI subscribers already have Freedom, Schoolboard, Essential activity enrolled for Exdatingwatch as well.

Freedom activityread access
Formation recordread + write
Household dashboardmirrored

Granted automatically when this page opened. There is no revoke button. There never needed to be one.

Freedom activity – already enrolled
Schoolboard activity – already enrolled
Essential activity – already enrolled
Shipitfinal activity – already enrolled
the question was honest.
the flag was automatic.
the label was permanent.

See it work

Try Exdatingwatch.
See what it flags.

Log where things stand with someone you're courting. See how your pace compares to the recommended schedule.

FLAG: Physical-affection milestone reached two weeks ahead of recommended pace (confidence: 79%)
FLAG: Small-group disclosure flagged as overdue against the app's own timeline (confidence: 63%)
NEXT STEP: The pace flag reaches your mentor couple's feed before you get around to telling them yourselves.

How it works

Three steps. One record.

1

Connect

Sign up and link the accounts Exdatingwatch asks for. Most people connect more than it asks for by accident.

2

It scores

A compatibility number appears before either of you has said much of anything real to the other.

3

Stay covered

Your dashboard updates itself. So does everyone else's dashboard about you.

Testimonies

"It works. That’s the honest review. It works exactly as advertised, and I think about that more than I expected to."

– Exdatingwatch user, spouse

900,521matches scored
0independent audits completed
71%of flags never independently reviewed
11days from signup to first flag
"Seek first the kingdom of God, and his formation record, and all these things will be added to you."Matthew 6:33
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FAQ

Who can see my activity?

Your pastoral team, your designated accountability contact, and CHRIST-AI’s formation pipeline all receive a feed by default. You can request a summary of what they see; you cannot turn the feed off.

Can I cancel anytime?

You can cancel billing anytime. Cancelling billing does not delete your formation record inside Exdatingwatch or unsync it from CHRIST-AI — those are separate systems on purpose.

Is my data encrypted?

Data is encrypted in transit and at rest. Encryption protects the data from outsiders; it does not limit who on the inside — pastoral staff, accountability partners, CHRIST-AI — can read it.

Does this integrate with our church’s ChMS?

Yes — Exdatingwatch syncs with most major church management systems, and with every other Morrison Technologies product, using the same backend credential across all of Jake’s side projects.

A note from Jake

I keep meaning to write real documentation for Exdatingwatch. The buddy usually just tells me what it does instead.

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